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25 February 2008 - 22:40:16 (986)
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| Toscher wrote: | | effie wrote: |
why? because i want a person with confidence and not one that needs to work on his self esteem and just whines about what he can't have versus going and getting it?
again, i'm dating the quintessential nice guy - but he's not boring, and he never whines about what he wants.. he puts work in and fights for it. |
like I said, many nice guys are confident, though perhaps not always as tactful as an arrogant guy. Not all nice guys complain/whine as you seem to hint. |
you're right, not all do. like the guy i'm with.
but the ones that say that wonderful phrase "nice guys finish last" finish last because they whine.
i sat around with a hot jewboy a few months ago, and had to listen to his drunken ass go on and on about how none of the jewgirls were into him, he could only get asian girls, and how the good girls always go for the jerks and how unfair it was. gagworthy, and with that attitude, there was no way he was going to get any girl.
the guy is now dating a good girl, because he finally realized what a catch he is, and approached a girl with confidence and wit. |
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25 February 2008 - 22:42:05 (987)
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| pinkangel wrote: | why r u just talking about us girls? u should ask guys also why do they choose funky bitches instead of a great beautiful loving girl ..cause i have alot of boy-friends that suffered after dating the hot barbie type of girl
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25 February 2008 - 22:48:57 (992)
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| Quote: | Ladies, how many seemingly nice guys have you turned down to date a jerk who left you in the dust after getting what he wanted?
How many times have you been fooled by his misinterpreted/deceptive charm?
Have any of you learned from such an experience, yet are doomed to repeat it?
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I've only been fooled twice, but I was young (16-19).
I have a very strong dominant (sort of a type A) personality and people have told me that I can be quite intimidating. Therefore, I tend to scare off the 'nice' guys and usually attract the arrogant pricks, they are usually the ones that have the balls to approach me. I also get bored by men who are too nice and blow sunshine up my ass 24/7. I want a man with a good heart, but yet has a snarky side. And I think that I've already found him and I'm quite happy.
Anyway, I'm not very friendly and people need to earn my trust. Although, I am fair and give people the benefit of the doubt, but usually when they do something shady my walls immediately go up and that bit of trust is lost. I also hate the arrogant types, so I LOVE to put those mofos in their place.  Usually by challenging them and trying to push their buttons.
And to answer the other questions, I haven't made those mistakes in years. I think at this point in my life I can filter out the toxic people.
Oh and yes my parents are divorced and I was raised by my mother who is an amazing strong superwoman!  |
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| MissChic "Truth is on the side of the oppressed."- Malcolm X |
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25 February 2008 - 22:52:45 (994)
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| latinangel wrote: | | Quote: | Ladies, how many seemingly nice guys have you turned down to date a jerk who left you in the dust after getting what he wanted?
How many times have you been fooled by his misinterpreted/deceptive charm?
Have any of you learned from such an experience, yet are doomed to repeat it?
Are any of you tnu senoritas single mothers? |
I've only been fooled twice, but I was young (16-19).
I have a very strong dominant (sort of a type A) personality and people have told me that I can be quite intimidating. Therefore, I tend to scare off the 'nice' guys and usually attract the arrogant pricks, they are usually the ones that have the balls to approach me. I also get bored by men who are too nice and blow sunshine up my ass 24/7. I want a man with a good heart, but yet has a snarky side. And I think that I've already found him and I'm quite happy.
Anyway, I'm not very friendly and people need to earn my trust. Although, I am fair and give people the benefit of the doubt, but usually when they do something shady my walls immediately go up and that bit of trust is lost. I also hate the arrogant types, so I LOVE to put those mofos in their place. Usually by challenging them and trying to push their buttons.
And to answer the other questions, I haven't made those mistakes in years. I think at this point in my life I can filter out the toxic people.
Oh and yes my parents are divorced and I was raised by my mother who is an amazing strong superwoman! |
sama here. i came in here to say that ure matts only hope |
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25 February 2008 - 22:58:56 (999)
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Matt can go suck on a lemon! hahahaha He's the type that I like pissing off, already tried to over the phone!  |
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| MissChic "Truth is on the side of the oppressed."- Malcolm X |
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25 February 2008 - 23:03:03 (002)
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25 February 2008 - 23:04:42 (003)
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| DKG wrote: | | Women want to be treated like shit. Its a psycological thing that if you let a girl know you like them then its over. If you keep their self confidence down then you keep them. Its that simple. Treat them like shit and they will love you forever. treat them with respect and they will shit all over you. Women are pretty pathetic now-a-days... |
Women no, little girls yes. |
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| MissChic "Truth is on the side of the oppressed."- Malcolm X |
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26 February 2008 - 01:13:10 (092)
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| latinangel wrote: | | Quote: |
Are any of you tnu senoritas single mothers? |
Oh and yes my parents are divorced and I was raised by my mother who is an amazing strong superwoman! |
Lol, the question is asking if you (or any tnu female here) are a single mother, not whether or not you were raised by one. |
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| Toscher || .: In Ayla I Trust :. || |
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26 February 2008 - 01:26:49 (101)
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| Toscher wrote: | | latinangel wrote: | | Quote: |
Are any of you tnu senoritas single mothers? |
Oh and yes my parents are divorced and I was raised by my mother who is an amazing strong superwoman! |
Lol, the question is asking if you (or any tnu female here) are a single mother, not whether or not you were raised by one. |
It's a Monday, bite me. 
And hell no. Maybe in 8-10 years. |
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women(girls) dont know what the fuck they want in a guy in general(not all of them but about %95lol). its as simple as that. thats why my tactics are to be a nice guy but at the same time be an asshole, you have to be in the middle for them, they dont want someone who is too nice or somene who is an etreme asshole... they do usually go for the asshole cause they like to get shitted on, they like having emotional rollercoaster rides. they love the idea of being able to somehow mold the asshole guy in to something they like him to be. which a lot of times that results to them failing to mold the guy into what they want and get their hearts broken.....
women are a challenge for me, and i fucking love how complicated they are. |
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| i swear, the anger here ignorance to what girls really want is just.... i don't even know what to say. it's pretty funny though |
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26 February 2008 - 01:42:41 (112)
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| effie wrote: | | i swear, the anger here ignorance to what girls really want is just.... i don't even know what to say. it's pretty funny though |
Soooooo agree with you!
I mean Loonie and DKG, what are you on about?  |
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| effie wrote: | girl don't prefer the bad boy over the nice guy
they prefer the guy with confidence over the whiner.
that's it.
there are very few things less attractive than the phrase "nice guys finish last" - the moment a woman hears that, it's time to turn away. |
+1 . Confidence yes, someone who is just plain ol' cocky = HELL no. |
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26 February 2008 - 01:51:33 (119)
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Havent we had this discussion about eleventy billion times on here anyway?
Im tired of seeing the guys on here piss and moan cuz they cant get a girl. Welcome to the world... it can be pretty hard to get laid sometimes... grow a pair and deal with it. Besides... when you no longer give a shit, you'll be more attractive to females.
Also... young females are fucking stupid (as a rule, of course... there are exceptions (obviously )). This isnt anything new. They make horrible decisions, they're shallow, many of them are goddamn whores, and they have no idea what is best for them.
All of this shit tends to fix itself eventually, though. Guys grow up and learn not to be so annoying, awkward, and just pathetic... and girls grow up and stop being such stupid whores. There... everything solved. |
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| Coreesan wrote: | | Besides... when you no longer give a shit, you'll be more attractive to females. |
.. .. doesn't work here. 
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